Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).
When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).
But dating can and should be energizing, exciting and educational.Or, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones, who are 25 years apart in age?In their defense, I hardly grew up dating or crushing on men close to my age group.Online dating isn't something to fear even if you haven't dated for years I've been dating pretty much since I was 49. (I'll let you do the math -- I don't like saying my age out loud.) The following is stated neither with gushing pride nor cowering shame: During those past 13 years, I've had more than 1,000 dates with more than 300 different women. There are things men and women can take going into this dating abyss, but let's start with advice for you (older) guys, in reverse order of importance • Funny is good. Cynical and bitter might work if you're a dark and complicated graduate student.And that doesn't count the five "meaningful relationships" I had along the way. Otherwise, always be upbeat (certainly on a first or second date). In a nation of overweight people, keeping fit will set you apart from the crowd, and also say some good things about you without uttering a word.